Originally Posted By: Steve85
mtb, just continue to record all interactions with her. Not sure what lawas are in Illinois about wiretapping, but ask your L if you have to disclose that she is being recorded.

I haven't been recording call. I only recently started taking videos on my phone when she shows up at the house. My reason for doing this is to have some sort of proof that I'm not doing anything wrong in case she falsely accuses me of something. She had made a comment to people that I got physical with her one time when she stopped by, when it was actually the other way around. I was standing in the doorway and she shoved and pushed her way through when I wouldn't move. So now, I just start recording and hold the phone in my hand, so there will be some record of me not doing anything in case she tries to say I did...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...