Letting Go (Saying ILY Pt 4)

[mtb1981]

MTB, any updates? this seems an unusually long time for you not to post about some crazy new things WW has done.

I hope all is well and your weekend was good.

Things have been pretty quiet since Thursday when I found out about the calls to the police and her accusing me of braking into her house and recording her. Friday was when she stopped by the house and then called and asked me for 10 bucks. This weekend, my oldest son was staying with me. He's 15 and old enough to watch the younger ones, so after I put the little ones in bed, I made it out of the house for a little bit while he played video games and kept an eye on things at home. I decided to go to a local bar for a few drinks. It happens to be the bar W got fired from. I used to like going there before all this happened and hadn't been there in a while. Now that W is no longer affiliated with it, I felt comfortable stopping in. I was there for about 15 minutes, and started getting calls from W that I did not answer. I have a feeling she knew I was there. I saw one of OM's friends as I was walking in. I think he may have called her and told her I was there. Or it could have just been a coincidence that she called. Either way, I decided to leave in case she decided to come up there. Went to a friend's house and spun some records for a couple hours and then headed home. Yesterday there was no contact. I took the kids fishing this weekend, and they all had a good time...

I'm kind of surprised W didn't show up to the house Sat or Sun. She made comments both Thurs and Fri that she was coming to get stuff from the house the next day. She has all of her stuff, now she's trying to take marital property. She wants all the decorations from the house, all the DVDs, and a deep freezer. I couldn't care less about the DVDs and decorations, but I actually use the freezer. She wouldn't use it, but claims it's hers because her mother bought it for us a few years ago. I'm assuming she wants to try to sell it. Same with the DVDs and decorations. She's desperate for money and selling/pawning things seems to be her thing. She stole some 1 ounce silver coins from me about a month ago, and I heard through the grapevine that she's been trying to sell them to a few people in town. They wouldn't buy them because they said the whole thing seemed shady and they thought they might have been stolen...

Hopefully, she's getting the hint that I'm not going to enable her by giving her money and she stops coming over. I'm to the point that every time my phone rings or someone rings my door bell I get a pit in my stomach because I don't want to deal with anymore of her drama. I told her to text me in advance if she wants to come by to see the kids or get something, but she usually just shows up. It's kind of funny that this all started because she wanted space, and now I'm the one that wants the space...