My W was similar to this. Broke her back when she was 16, and has been on opioids for years. Eventually develped an addiction. Those things suck the life out of people. Other back issues came into play, and the doctors told her things were only going to get worse as time goes by. She also did very little around the house and had no job. Since BD, I thought the same thing AS said. How in the heck is she going to be able to take care of herself? I planned on growing old with her and taking care of her along the way, but now that may not be an option...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019