I read your new and old posts and I can sort of relate. My husband is a physician and both times he left I found out he was dating nurses with whom he worked who were 10 and 14 years younger than I. I believe my situation is different though because my husband physically left saying he needs freedom and doesn't want to be married. In your case your husband is still there with you. Whether or not your husband is having a full affair it sounds like he enjoys attention from his lady colleagues. Your husband probably does love you and loves the outside attention as well. You didn't mention anything about divorce, so it sounds like a question of whether you can continue to tolerate that behavior? Choosing to end your marriage is like trading one set of problems for another. It sounds like you're wise to seek input and consider it from all angles. Does your husband still say he loves you? Does he take you out on dates? Do you two have hobbies together and talk together at the end of the day? If your marriage is functioning well then it may not be worth ending. I hope you get more responses this time!
