Cil, I always love reading your posts. I do think some of us really do have to deal with the personality disordered though. I'm not claiming to have the worst on the block, but as far as I can tell, he has been a lot more destructive than yours has.
Did you ever read, forgive me if I'm wrong, I think it was hopefloats posts? If I recall, her H was a lawyer. They ended up getting divorced and then eventually remarried. I think her situation sounds so much like yours. If you haven't read them, or read them in a while, maybe do if you have time. I think a lot of what she wrote will sound familiar to you.
Seems to me like he is working his way there, it is just going to be a while. You are doing what all of us are supposed to. You are really working on you and moving on for yourself. A true testament to healing.
I'm going to work on my patience and my kindness. I'm going to try to be more understanding and less reactive. I want those things for myself.
