You want her fantasy to come crashing down. We all want that, but you are putting to much thought in what if. You have to focus and worry about you. WW arent logical, they don't think, act, react in a logical way. The more you think certain things going to shake her the more you might be setting yourself up for disappointment if it doesnt happen.
Yeah the mess under the rug is pilling up, but you would be amazed how high they will let it go.
You are doing good with your GAL and WWs almost all the time affair down. Her A is not about the other person, it's about her frame of mind. The OP is there to fulfill her fantasy, to give her feel good moments. But when you pull away, she has to deal/live with that OP not having the potential their S has. The WS has to live with being with a person they are not truly in love with.
Be patient! Enjoy this upcoming holiday weekend.
Joejoe, what's the bolded part mean?
You're definitely right that I do need to refocus on myself, I'll keep that in mind.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
