Dear All,

I posted on this site in 2013 but I think it was in the wrong part so I did get one lovely and very helpful reply but no more, so I didn't come back after a few months. I was just browsing the web and came across a story just like mine
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2307973&page=all

Then I realised that it was my story. The sad thing is that I am now 5 years on and the story has not changed. The original co-worker is married with twins and there is a new married co-worker on the scene. On a good day I can cope and just put this down to my husband's need for female friends and I know that he loves me even if the passion has waned. On a bad day I wonder if we are living a lie, if he is only staying because he feels he has to. I want a relationship with the intimacy, passion and commitment that I associate with marriage.

Anyone else been in this situation?


Me 49y H 52y
T23 y
M17 y
??EA June 2012 with younger co-worker
children 8-12