Then I realised that it was my story. The sad thing is that I am now 5 years on and the story has not changed. The original co-worker is married with twins and there is a new married co-worker on the scene. On a good day I can cope and just put this down to my husband's need for female friends and I know that he loves me even if the passion has waned. On a bad day I wonder if we are living a lie, if he is only staying because he feels he has to. I want a relationship with the intimacy, passion and commitment that I associate with marriage.
Anyone else been in this situation?
Me 49y H 52y T23 y M17 y ??EA June 2012 with younger co-worker children 8-12