Very well done. You handled the conversation well. Sometimes, defending ourselves tends to fuel their anger fire more than it normally would. Listening opens the door to actually hearing what they are saying/trying to tell us. The more they talk, the more we will eventually learn about them.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
