Finally! I am happy to read that your decree absolute was passed. Now, you can write the next chapter of your life's story and not worry about whether dating was ligit or not.
Hopefully the G will go off into the night and not return to bother you any longer. You can now breathe easier! Aged Pa is looking down, smiling and saying it's about time for V to live her life to the fullest and be happy once again.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.