Yeah. Ste7e, I was thinking the same exact thing. For the first 3 weeks of my separation I still sent upbeat or informational texts to my wife, but once I got on here I went NC and cut that off completely. How is that not seen as pursuing? Or are they just in another phase, way ahead of us?


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019