Ste7e,

Awesome to hear! Keep it up, man. I feel so connected/invested in your sitch.

I am talking to the WW tomorrow, for the first time in 2.5 weeks. I am going into it with a positive attitude, but also a plan for what I want to say. I'll certainly let her take the conversation where she wants, and I will listen and validate, but my plan is to keep it on business and logistics. For me, the key is doing it in a good frame of mind. I am going out for a bike ride ahead of time with friends and plan on GALing the whole afternoon. If I need to vent afterwards I plan on calling a good friend and letting it out, but I know she isn't going to hear any of it.

If you want to, run through some things on here that you would want/need to say to her. Remember, only initiate if you need to. If you can let it go, just wait and let her reach out to you first.


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019