Husband gone for second time - 4

[Jim1234]

The thing we don't talk about as much is if that person has also soul-searched, and really changed, and is actually worthy of our love and forgiveness. They not only have to be accountable for the destruction they have caused, and remorseful for the way they have hurt their S and kids, but they have to commit to changing themselves. Every day.

This ^^^^^^^.

As much as I miss my wife, this is pretty much why I'm ok with moving forward with the divorce. I get none of this from her, and doubt I ever will.