This does not seem like a plan for lasting changes. You'll have to put your foot down every few days. She has no fear in losing you because all she has to do is tweek this, manuever that, accommodate you in the slightest of ways, and you're satisfied for the time being... she is selfish... And yet, you rub her feet! And still, no back rub for you! If I were you, I would make an appointment for a massage, and NOT WITH HER!
