Now, you have proof your W is cake eating. Take time gather your thoughts. Don't make any hasty decisions.
It's time to detach. Please don't bring her family into this. I'm glad to hear you are going to stop telling.
You can detach, remember to do it with love. You want to show her the best version of you ever. Stop arguing with her.
Get out the house and GAL. It's Friday. Start enjoying your life.
Most of us have been where you are at. GAL, GAL, GAL. Go get some new clothes, smell good and shoes.
IMO, you are going to have to confront your W about the picture. Do it with confidence, love, and calm.
I would say, "I saw a picture of you and OM, I will not be any person's second. I will not live in a M sharing my W". If she tries to say they are friends and it was a friendly picture. You say, "I don't care, it's wrong and unacceptable". Leave the convo right after that statement. Don't let her try to justify herself. Tell her you don't want to Talk anymore tonight. Let her chew on your statements overnight. Don't give any ultimatums yet. I dont think you are ready for those yet.
This process will take patience.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
