Me and my W have been together for 14 years, married for 5. We have 2 children.
Our relationship has never been perfect, but we have always enjoyed each others company and got on, not too many major arguments.
We moved to another country 4 years ago for a better life for us and the kids, the W struggled to begin with, but has now accepted life here.
So, 3 weeks ago, she tells me that she no loger loves me that way and wants to split. I know she has been having an emotional affair with someone at work, which has now transpired to a physical affair. As we have split, ive not harrased or asked about it. She was also adamant that we tell the kids that we have split, which i did not want to do, but we did.
Heres the tricky part, she wants us to still live together for the kids to maintain the family ethic. Ive moved into the spare room.
