UPDATE:
Just got a text a few seconds ago from WAW...here it is...

"I'm sorry we couldn't hang longer. I didn't think Jim was definitely coming.
I didn't just want your help. I did want to hang with you but I couldn't cancel with him. He doesn't do anything all week. So I'm kinda his only thing. His only night out."

ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14