RR- thanks for the clarification.

I'd like an honest opinion please. I most curious as to the opinion of the WAS/WW/WAW please? Earlier in my stitch I mentioned that My W moved most of her possessions out yesterday. Upon entering the spare room which she barricaded herself in, I have noticed some peculiar things..

We have 3 family bibles (1 which is hers) all were left behind.
All family photo books and pictures were left behind
All photos of S were left behind-I don't think she took any
I made her a Memories binder of cards, concert tickets, love letters and keepsakes.. this too was left behind..

Do I read into this as she wants a clean break and wants to leave the past in the past. Meaning she is totally DONE?
Do I read into this as these wonderful memories are just a painful reminder of what was..It hurts too much..
Do I read into this as there maybe a OM and he may not like these reminders in her new apartment. Not sure what to believe.

I'm kinda going crazy cuz without W here when I walk around my home it's like i feel there is something drastically missing. Almost like the walls are missing.

Please help me to understand?


M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18