Thanks guys! You are the best. Love you guys! Yes Blu, I think you are right. I will know when the time is right to ask her out or to hang out. For now I just follow her lead. She's reaching out very regularly blnow on her own so that's great. As I said I never text her or initiate anything. Just like you said Blu, I'm sure I'll know when it is safe to do that.
Exactly Another Stander, I always think of Vanilla's posts about that. I realize she is coming out on the drawbridge and will likely run back in. I am just fine with that as there is no rush here. It takes as long as it takes to get her out of the castle permanently. I'm just fine with that. Yes Arista I am wondering the same thing...if she'll bring up the concert. We'll see! Of course I'll keep you all posted as to what goes on today.
Thanks to you all for being there for me!!!! xoxo
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14