Let us know how it goes! ... I was thinking the same thing. Help, or don't help, if it's what you want to do, but not for any reason of proving a point. She is leading the way and I don't see you pursuing at all. There may come a time when it is safe for you to extend invitations (perhaps the concert was one), but my sense is that you will know when that time comes. You seem to have very good insight on the dynamic happening with her!
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
