WW wanted to know why I was in bed again last night and I said we talked about this yesterday. I fell asleep while she was watching TV and she kept bumping into me about four or five times and eventually she just rested her arm against me I think to wake me up or get attention of some sort. She eventually left went and slept in the other bedroom.
Conversations have increased, she's asking me where I have been, and we have some physical touch the last 2 evenings.
My counselor says when she is doing these things, she is indeed pursuing, and that I need to respond to these in a positive way.
Any input from you all?
Let her sleep in another room if she wants, good job moving back into the MBR.
I say let her keep pursuing you, if you turn around and try to pursue her she will retreat.
Simple pursuit and distance.
You probably know more than I do. I am a bit tentative on responding to her pursuit, if that is indeed what it is. I give this board and Michele a great deal of thanks for the progress I've made this far.
My mental and emotional state is so much better. I feel attached to AJS and his thread so I want him to know it only took me 2 weeks to wake up and START a turnaround. I wish he lived around here.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
