Affair, no feelings...is there hope? IV

[Zues126]

Hi 44!

I read your comment about rereading my post and was very confused, I didn't remember writing a post recently to you about taking your spouse back too soon. I started going through your threads and couldn't find it, and then it hit me that you might be referring to a thread I wrote a while back to the general DB community. So let me start by sharing that it cheered me up to know that something I contributed was of value. I only wish I could take more burden off of you.

Then I realized I hadn't actually posted on your thread before. I haven't been posting as much lately. But in actuality I have been following your sitch very closely. Maybe because you have Sandi and Artista posting to you and I always like to read their posts. But also because you have a lot in common with me in the sense of some NGS tendencies, a deliberate and analytical approach, and a deep love for your WW and desire to save your marriage. Maybe this isn't so rare, non-analytical people may not find their way to forums, nor those who don't want to save their Ms, and I think NGS is a darn epidemic especially in these crisis. But still, there's more than that, I just feel like I get where you're coming from.

So I wanted to post and let you know that I'm following and rooting for you and am proud with the work you've done and the path you're on. You've got a good head on your shoulders and some of the best in the businesses giving you guidance and support. Keep fighting the good fight and we're all in your corner!