All of the advice above is good stuff. The NC is for you not for her. There is no map, no timeline. This period of NC is a gift of time to you. How you choose to use it is what is most important. If you use it to stress over her, or her reactions, or her moves, that means you aren't focusing on you.
Also, can some of the old hands here explain a temperature check in better detail to me. I get the idea that the Ww or WH contacts the LBS to gauge how they are doing. Is that considered a good thing, though? My sense is that the response, if there is one, is short and brief and simply letting them know that the LBS is doing well, taking care of themselves.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
