mtb- I feel where you are coming from with the kids.As you already know from my stich my S15 is soo hurting because his mom packed up and left today. He said he's too broken to go to school. I think we as dads need to try and facilitate a relationship because at some point in life they will need their mom for something. I feel there will be pretty big hole there from the abandonment issue. I just hope they can all heal from this properly. Blessings my friend!
I agree with the hole from the abandonment issue. Weird thing is, my wife has always complained about how her mom was never around when she was growing up and it has caused her a lot of issues. MIL got a job at a bar when W was about 9 or 10 and left her and her brother at home with stepdad number one for days at a time. She still hasn't forgiven her mother for doing this. Now she's doing the same thing to her own kids. It blows my mind...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
