Originally Posted By: Ste7e
Ok stupid question here
How long of being dark before I should expect to hear from WW in a temp check way
I know it has only been 11 days and she did text a couple days ago about a logistic
But I am wondering what I should expect and how long do I stay buried and dark


I know this is tough, but you've got to drop all expectations. You're going dark as a tactic to get a reaction from her when you should be doing it to protect yourself. Use the time away from her to work on yourself. Get out and GAL. Do things to occupy your mind. Don't even think about when she might contact you or what it will mean when she does. You stay dark for as long as you need to. Just keep in mind that going dark doesn't mean being cold/ rude/ indifferent. If she pings you and asks why you are being those then just say that's not your intent, that you feel like both of you need time and space from each other to work through things.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57