Your wife is cheating on you. First, take care of your financial stuff or she'll drain you dry.
As far as what to say is concerned; I'll tell you what I'd say, but I don't think many on this forum would agree. Here it goes...
"Get your sh*t and get the f*ck out of my house." And with that, the conversation is over.
As a former WW, I agree with you... Being kind and understanding with a spouse who is having an A is not the way to go... Of course, you can say it with some couth...
