Making her do all the work means, you don't do anything to make the D proceed. You don't file, let her. Don't sign the papers if you don't want to. IMO, there is no need to discuss the stipulations of D until she has filed. You should probably consult a lawyer either way, so you are aware of your rights and are ready to deal with D if she does decide to file. From reading a lot on this board, I've noticed it's very common for a WW to say they want a D, but do very little to actually make it happen. A lot of the time, they want the LBH to do all the heavy lifting. They're too busy living in their fantasy world to want to deal with something as serious and real as filing for D...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
