Letting Go (Saying ILY Pt 4)

[SteveLW]

This is ALWAYS tough on kids no matter the age. I just wrote in another thread earlier today that one thing that WASs and LBSs alike delude themselves about is that D has no or little impact on kids. That is just not facing reality in my opinion. D is ALWAYS rough on kids, no matter their age, even adults. MWD talked about this in her books, how the pain of her parents D even though she was an adult, is one of the things that drove her to become a DB advocate.

So this is normal mtb, and I know it has to hurt. But I would suggest, if her school has a counselor (many do) to get her to talk to the counselor. She may be having feelings she doesn't know how to deal with, which is why she has pangs of living with mommy.

But also pat yourself on the back, this means you've done a good job at shielding them from her ridiculous behavior.