JS, one of the things that started to really wake my wife up was when I spoke to an attorney. Why are you cake feeding her this "joint filing, with out attorneys" thing?

She wants the divorce, not you right? She should file. You should consult with an attorney (let him know you won't file, because he will try to tell you it is better if you do), so that you are covered. Next time it comes up tell her that you have decided you are against the D and won't file. And that you have consulted an attorney for guidance for when she does file.

When this happened in my sitch my wife looked like I just grew horns. She didn't know how to handle it. She never again mentioned D to me, though she claimed for a while afterward that she still wasn't sure about staying in the MR.

DO NOT FEED HER FANTASY OF AN EASY DIVORCE!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018