Letting Go (Saying ILY Pt 4)

[mtb1981]

W called again twice last night, and I didn't answer. Followed shortly by a text asking if I was going to keep ignoring her. I did not respond, because I've decided to only respond to texts pertaining to the kids. I know she's going to try to spin things around and say that she was trying to contact me about the kids, but I have explicitly told her on more than one occasion that if she needed to talk about the kids to send me a specific text about what she wanted to discuss and I would get back to her. Instead, I get random calls followed by texts like, "Seriously?", "Are you gonna keep ignoring me?", etc. The way I see it, if it were really about the kids, she would send something like, "When is D's ballgame tonight?" or "Can I pick up the kids tonight for ice cream?". I'm not falling for her tricks to keep me attached...

Side note, the kids have had several ballgames in the past 2 weeks and W has not made it to any of them. This is after specifically telling D she would be at 2 of them. I gave her the website that has the schedules for both of their teams, so she know how to access the information on locations and times, but I guess she has "more important" things to be doing. Typical selfish WW's, amirite? D has another game tonight, and I doubt she shows up to it either...

Also, another thing that has been bothering me a bit lately is the fact that the kids keep asking to go over to W's new place. She took them over there for a little bit on Mother's Day, and since then they have randomly asked if they could go over there. I understand that they miss her and want to see her, and I have no problem with that. What bothers me is that D9 told me that she wants to go live with W in her new house. Again, I understand that she misses her, but it kind of hurts. I've been the only one taking care of the kids for the past 4 months and W is barely around to see them for 15 minutes a week. It breaks my heart, but I get it too...