Wife is not who I married ..Pls Help Part 2

[LoneWlf]

Thanks for chiming in Vanilla and S85-You guys are right it's just stuff.

I went with my sister to the concert and it turned out pretty good. There were a couple times that I would get caught thinking wow look at all the families here smiling and look at me with my broken family. Hopefully it gets better sooner.
Now she is leaving me with a lot of stuff - My S toys when he was really young. Old things she leaving behind. We both gathered a lot of things. Eventually it will be up to me to discard these things. Shall I stipulate that she will have to pay half the junk removal fees at the time? You guys said to treat this like a business deal.
In regards to popping back in. Now at this time I want to create space and time away. My S wants little to do with her. So I am thinking of setting up a boundary that she cannot just come around unannounced- She has to call or text first to set up a time and get confirmation from me or S. I don't want her to just show up. Is there anything else I should mention? Thanks again