Hopefully I learn to shut my mouth soon... So yesterday we had parents event in our sons new school which he starts at fall. All went good, I was upbeat and we were cordial to each other as usually. I noticed that she was dressed up very nicely, got some new clothes and make-up in a way she usually never had during daytime when we were together. She also wore high heels, which I always loved on her, but she always told how they hurt her so I never actually said that I like that she wears them since I did not want her hurt. Well, we dropped by in grocery store together on our way to separate ways, and obviously it bothered me so I said to her that it would have been great if you would have been wearing high heels also when we were together, but that I just settled for what it was as usual... I instantly wanted to suck the words back since they came out so needy and judgmental but it was too late. I can tell she did not take my words well either... I know I cannot change past, but made decision I never comment anything that way again. But what do you say, would you comment WW on positive way, i.e you look nice, or you have nice shoes? Or would that just make more harm so that it would be better not say anything in that nature?
