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[Jlh]

So I talked to him tonight and asked him if he talked to our son about his new apartment since hes taken him to see it. He says he told our boy that it's "daddy's room".

I told him that I feel like hes giving some mixed signals since he looked like a beaten dog and sad when he leaves the house a lot of the time and he told me that he still wants to go through with the D and that its "just a sad time".

He has so many issues under his belt like death of his brother, he's basically his family's main caregiver, work,money issues, etc. I told him at my therapy session, the therapist says that she is concerned for him as well and asked me if he would sit in on a session with me. I told her I'd ask him and he said he would go for my issues, not his.

I told him I think we need a better schedule where he comes around less often because I can't handle him coming around every night to see our son, staying for 45 minutes and then leaving.

I did ask him via text just now if he took his favorite wedding pic with him when he left the house to go to his apartment. I'm pretty sure he has it but I dont know what the point would be to have a photo of us in our wedding clothes at his place.

If anyone has an opinion or some wise words to give, I'd appreciate it. This is not my husband, I was starting to feel good about myself again and now I feel so low again.