Actually the more an ex takes the easier it is. The big house was full to the brim of stuff.
The G was a bit of a hoarder and the cupboards were full of his stuff, lots and lots of stuff. I packed his stuff and filled a huge storage locker which was without furniture just stuff and more stuff and even more stuff.
As I have found stuff it has been posted to him but it's less and less these days. But still I posted it. It isn't mine.
It is useful to lose his stuff. Feels good to be rid of it.
I have moved on from stuff. And I buy second hand.
The G had aged when I last saw him, and I looked like a movie star! Not really but I felt better than ever.
I wanted to comment on the age thing and generalising. It ain't true for many of us, ok!
Don't guess or assume.
My own view is that these things are triggered by events not age. For instance that grey hair, or wrinkle or unflattering picture. Not by the number.
It's how you compare to others of your peers. And to how you expected to be, that gets you down.
Wanted or not an S or D will get the walkaway down. Reality bites. She is giving up the certain for the uncertain. It is grief you are seeing in my opinion.
As YOU detach so you are independently evaluating W, comparing her to her peers. It's called the sexual market place. And it will happen, it's inevitable.
My thoughts
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
