Letting Go (Saying ILY Pt 4)

[mtb1981]

Thanks. Some days are easier than others. That's for sure...

I was also wondering if I should respond to the text about her blaming me for CEFS questioning her about lying on her application. Part of me thinks I should just not respond and keep NC, and another part of me feels like I should respond because not responding will make her think that I was the one who turned her in. I'm leaning towards the no response, but any input or advice would be appreciated...

I would simply tell her you didnt file the complaint and that she should call and ask CEFS office as to the specifics of the issue as you are unaware of to details. Let them tell her it wasnt you.

Depending on how she asked the question, a simple "No, I didn't do that" or just a "Nope" may suffice.

Yeah, I've decided I'm not going to bring it up at all. I won't respond to it in text, and if she asks over the phone or in person, I'm going to tell her I didn't file any complaint and to talk to CEFS if she's concerned about it and leave it at that...