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[Jlh]

I had a therapy session today that went so/so. She told me that maybe it's time I start asking H about his mixed signals.

I'm scared to hear the replies but I'm just so confused due to his mixed signals. He shares things excitedly regarding things he knows I love, acts upset and quiet when he leaves the house to go back to his apartment, was concerned when I didn't pick up the phone then came over thinking I had hurt myself.

Then he is distant and aloof. He waits til he is about to leave the house sometimes to bring up things that upset me.

I hate this MLC and I'm ready to ask him what the deal is with his mixed signals regarding acting hurt to leave at night like he doesn't want to go back to his place. Is this a nono to do regarding distance and should I ignore the mixed signals and not question them to him?

Some days I have patience and can handle this, but for a few days now I feel so weak and pathetic and cant stop crying. I feel lost.