Thank you. I finished reading DR yesterday. I have been reading the articles and posts on here for the last couple of weeks, and in some ways, they seem to be working.
One thing that's making GAL more difficult is that we have a 3 year old S. He's staying with me during the day while she's at work. She actually moved him and herself out a couple of months ago, then immediately began fooling around, bringing OM's around him, etc. While I don't mind helping with our S, it's hard to hear him talk about things that go on at the "new house". Most of my friends are married, have families, or have moved away. Plus being left with massive amounts of bills, having viable ways to GAL is often in short supply.
I think I'm just looking for motivation to keep up the 180, being upbeat, etc. It hits hard when she's says things like that.