Advice on my Scenario Pt. 6 - Becoming a Warrior

[OrangeK]

Here's my opinion. You're being petty and letting your pride and ego get in the way. For some reason you feel like she needs to pay. You're too busy looking for a winner in this whole thing. I honestly think you're better than that. Be the bigger person in the situation. If you really want to win, show her through your actions that you really don't give a crap. As long as you are in the frame of mind that you are in right now, she is winning. Fuch her and feed her fish heads...

"For some reason you feel like she needs to pay"
Yea, i definitely do. Don't you after all the awful crap your W has done to you and your kids? Granted your W is making her own bed a very nasty one to be in, where as my WW is seemingly thriving through all of this. I cannot abide watching her just move on with no consequences at all. What she did is inhuman, deplorable, and pure evil.
Evil cant run amok unchecked. It upsets the balance.

I do give a crap. If you had to see my son in the state hes been in or heard some of the things he has said, you would too.
I can cope with my pain and loss, S3 cant. HES THREE.

Im not just going to lay down and go away. Im not chasing or antagonizing her, but i am not walking on eggshells for her either, ive always worn my heart on my sleeve and spoken my mind. That isn't going to change, how i say something, or the words i choose might, but im not the type to just bite my tongue and say nothing, and i dont see that changing.