Sandi is in your corner and so is Vanilla, and they are far better at addressing your DBing questions and conundrums than me.
I dont disagree, they have both meen MONUMENTAL in my recovery and detachment.
Originally Posted By: Maika
She only wins if she can play orchestra with your emotions and keep you going up and down and all around. Being composed, respectful, with asserting your boundaries is opposite of meek - it shows true grace and calm strength. When I saw the effect of being that way, it blew my mind. There is nothing more unnerving when the WW sees the LBS having their $hit together. It's powerful stuff - takes great courage and strength.
I plan on having my $hi7 together, working on it as we speak. Im not going on the warpath or anything, im leaving things alone as i have been advised, and only responding when necessary. However I can stil feel my anger, and express it here. I look forward to seeing her flummoxed by my cool, collected, not giving a crap attitude. Here, privately, i shall burn the inferno however.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
