Originally Posted By: OrangeK
So why lay down and play Mr. Cool and Complacent while she marches on through life thinking she did nothing wrong and that I am the @$$h0le?

It feels like im just letting her win, and get away scott free, and that ill just play the role of the meek, defeated NC/ Greystone when this is all said and done?

that doesnt sit well with me.
If R was the end goal for me, this would make sense.
But she is a parasitic destructive force of nature, diplomacy isn't going to do jack cr@p with her, so why bother?


Here's my opinion. You're being petty and letting your pride and ego get in the way. For some reason you feel like she needs to pay. You're too busy looking for a winner in this whole thing. I honestly think you're better than that. Be the bigger person in the situation. If you really want to win, show her through your actions that you really don't give a crap. As long as you are in the frame of mind that you are in right now, she is winning. Fuch her and feed her fish heads...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...