Why do you want to know why she won't admit to the affair?
She's trying to make herself feel less guilty, that's all. She will tell herself what she needs to tell herself to do what she is doing. Nothing you say is going to change that.
You want to know WHY she is doing, saying, thanking. But WHy do you want to know why?
FYI, my ex never admitted he was wrong. It's been 10 years. I tried to get him to say it a million and one different ways. He won't.
But I realize I know the truth. I don't give a dam if he wants to lie to himself.
