Why do you want to stay in this marriage? Let's measure it's health:
1. She has had THREE A's you know of. There's likely more.
2. She has ZERO interest in a sexual relationship with you.
3. She has ZERO interest in saving the marriage.
4. She has taken ZERO accountability for her actions.
5. She has ZERO respect for you.
6. She has ZERO empathy for you.
So, I will ask you again.
Why do you want to stay in this marriage? Finances?
I listened to a podcast that was talking about how to improve your life and meet your goals.
The question the host asked is this - "imagine it's your funeral and your loved one are around you. how do you want to be remembered by your children? by your partner? what can they say about you that reflects how you want to be remembered?"
Go do that!
You want your partner to say that she stayed with you because of money? or do you want something else?
You need to have a mindshift. It's not about decisions about whether you kick her out of the bedroom or not. Are you going to live your life to the fullest and not take disrespect from anyone? Then put that into action. Kicking her out the MR bedroom for the sake of it won't do anything if you don't have a larger game plan with life.
Who is canseco? what does canseco value? let's start there.
