Advice on my Scenario Pt. 6 - Becoming a Warrior

[OrangeK]

Why on God's green earth would you want to be friends with a person who deceived you the way she has? That blows my mind into a thousand pieces.

"or will she actually try to build an amicable co-parenting situation, try to be "friends", or even the re-flirting"

I dont want to be her friend thats for darn sure, not after all this. I was asking if she would try to eventually establish that as the norm.

I don't know if you could even trust her to be amicable, without her having an ulterior motive.

Agreed. I will always be frosty with any interactions with her, even a decade from now. As we say in the Fire Service, "Complacency Kills"

You still don't want to rock it, and are hoping she'll decide to be flirty and/or friendly.

Im not sure why you keep assuming I want these things, i dont. All i "WANT" from her is to hear her admit she was wrong, and thats never going to happen.
The only thing i mentioned recently about possibly "wanting" was the fact that i know i still think of her sexually, because at the end of the day, looking back, thats all she was good for. That and birthing S3. Shallow thing to say, but im saying about a shallow person. I wouldnt risk all the work ive done recently just to get some action, so even if was TEMPTED sexually by her, i wouldnt do it.

Well, what if she's M to another dude? It's just a matter of time. But you know what I think she'll do the minute she has another legal H, or you get a new woman? Become flirty and friendly with YOU! So the part about being bitter for 15 years.......no, I think it will change when she either get a new H or you start dating.

I absolutely agree with this, it fits her pattern to a tee.

I'm afraid you are setting yourself up for a big disappointment when you don't see her fall apart in court or whatever reaction you'd like to see.

Nope, no expectations. I imagine despite the fact it will make her VERY uneasy, she will keep her composure in court. I am determined to do the same. She wont get the satisfaction.

Did you just say logic?? WW's don't have logic!

I guess i just expect an adult and mother to posses SOME form of logic. Nope.

How often do I see it? I see it in every WW story where the H starts dating (especially dating one main woman), and especially if the WW has not M her OM yet.....or if things are not going like she had fantasized. There is this one thing you must always remember about a WW, Orange. Selfishness runs through her veins. Selfishness motivates every decision she makes. You may not always be able to see or understand what she got from doing a certain action....and it may not seem logical to you......but I can garantee you that she had something to benefit.....emotionally, attention, ego, financially, just for kicks, ........it was something she wanted at the moment. She will probably feel extra territorial over you, when it comes to other women. Having a child will give her more leverage. When you and another lady decide to get M, she'll try to do her nasty number little number.....just like with EX's W.

Yes i expect this as well, I plan on warning any future woman i date (once its appropriate to bring it up) that she will likely have to deal with WW at some point, and prep them for her tactics.

Remember how wonderfully confident you felt after making contact with her that first time? It showed me something. It showed me how you had built up that doubt or nervousness. At first, I though you were anxious to see how she would act toward you. But maybe you needed to prove something to yourself.......or maybe to her. You'll need to maintain that confidence when going forward, b/c if she ever senses you dread or fear what she might do........then you've had it!! Women like her are like dogs. If they sense your fear.....they will attack and rip you apart. She doesn't have power, she just has lies. She has a cute body she uses to her advantage, and uses moods to control. All women have, and use, at least 50% of what she has and uses. I'll let you figure out what part..

Hahaha. definitly figured that out, so on point. lol.
Indifference is the weapon of choice moving forward.