You are being P/A about OM, wanting her to fess us and "admit" things. She wasn't denying her affair. She was simply denying that he takes part in the bedtime routine.
She has never acknowledged the A either. She denies whenever it has been brought up. I never expected her to admit things, which is why i made a statement, not asked a question.
Originally Posted By: Ginger1
So why do you want her to tell you how involved she is with OM? Why are you trying to get it out of her so hard? You inserted it into the conversation when that wasn't what your convo was about.
the fact that she has never admitted to anything is just one of the really hard things i have a difficult time with accepting i guess, so when i texted her without checking here first (mistake) i let my emotions dictate what i said, not logic. wont be doing that again.
Originally Posted By: Ginger1
Your best course of action is to stop being so passive aggressive in your interaction and stick to exactly what the topic of the conversation is without trying to throw stuff in there. because really, she doesn't give a poop about what you know about OM, she really is rolling her eyes, and the focus doesn't remain where it needs to be, and that is your S.
If she doesnt care what i know about OM, why has she made such an effort for the last 7 months not to post it publicly, or denied anytime in the past i had confronted her about him? she stuck to the "just friends" BS.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
