Well, I'm being a better RR.

The lessons I've learned and continue to learn about Detachment and Differentiation of Self as well as what constitutes Controlling Behavior will benefit me regardless of what happens in my M.

LoneWlf, Thanks for your kind words. We tend to give better advice to others than we give ourselves. I think we remind ourselves when we advise others.

There are some great people here. People that seek understanding without judgment. People that seek understanding in their own sitch by helping others.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.