My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance

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I moved into the bed last night. She immediately asked what I was doing. I said I'm sleeping in here now. She responded that she's not sleeping (in the same bed) as me. I validated and said that's fine. Then she tried forcing me out of bed by pushing me with arms and legs. That didn't work so she tickled me. That did work. But then I got back in bed and she gave up.

Then she asked me to get her one of ice cream sandwiches. I told her no, this is the last one, but there is cookies and cream if you want to go get that. She asked about 5 more times if I'd give her the ice cream sandwich and then started trying to take it out of my hands. I didn't give in. Then she started crying. I didn't respond. After a few minutes of that act, she decided to call me an [censored] and go sleep in the front bedroom. In protest, she opened one of the French doors connecting the master to the hallway. Eventually I woke up and closed both doors.

She was laughing and touching me, so I guess that's a positive. She punched me twice in the stomach when I wouldn't be Mr. Nice Guy for her. Also, I get yelled at for talking to a friend about my situation. I told her that I can talk to my friends. She asked who all I've told about it (her affair). I told her that's my business. She responded that when they go and "run their mouth" then it becomes her business. So I told her to do whatever she wants. She said she told him something, and I said I'm glad you got that resolved then. She also used this moment to threaten to tell people that I was emailing an ex 6 years ago. I responded by saying that's up to you.

She also asked what I was doing tonight. I told her just hanging out. She also questioned who all I have told about our situation, I think she meant her affair, though she didn't speak the word. I was very upbeat the whole time, and recorded it so I could relisten. I think she is used to me doing everything she wants, when she wants. She didn't leave the bed until I wouldn't give her the ice cream AND didn't respond to her crying.

Thanks for all your help, I'm definitely feeling stronger and better about myself. Need to keep working on myself, and for myself.