just think what filing for D would accomplish? Nothing. You would be doing it just out of spite.
Instead of looking at it as fighting for your marriage i.e. "bustin' the divorce", look at the whole process as saving yourself, your very core. As someone recently said a totally awesome quote from Shawshank redemption when the lead hero escapes the prison through the sewer: Andy Dufresne crawled through 400 yards of $[censored] and came out on the other side smelling of roses.
