Yes Steve, I just have to be extra careful to be very subtle. Otherwise these things can backfire and be very transparent to her. Maybe like a dozen random concert pics of the merch booths, other fans, the stage, the performances, etc with judt one pic stuck in the middle of all the other random concert pics of Sue and I. Nothing overt. Plus WAW aside, I am pretty psyched for show! I think WAW knows she will remember back to the last time we saw our band together back in August of 2014...just months after our split and about a month before she was moving away to Florida. I'm sure that's documented way back in this thread. The quick recap of that concert in 2014 is for that day we were a couple again...holding hands, hugging, etc during the show. She said something in reference to moving away soon at that show. She said something to me like "you don't make this easy." At the end of that night when I dropped her off we kissed for a minute or so and said good night. As I remember things went South again after that but I can't remember the exact details...but again I'm sure this story is told right after it happened way back in this thread from late summer 2014. I'm quite sure I probably was obsessing about it here.
The point of that concert story is just to steess the significance and lengthy history of seeing our band together...it had/has emotional meaning to her. This is why she outright admitted the other night that she never could bring herself to go see them in Florida...her exact words were "I just wasn't ready to do that." It was then that I asked her to this concert coming up. So there's some history as to why this is especially a "big deal" and not just some concert.
Anyway, I have a feeling it's going to be interesting over the next few days
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14