Okay that sounds like great advice guys. So here's my plan. I am giving her 24 hours from now to contact me on her own about it. If I don't hear from her by this time tomorrow my friend said she'd absolutely love to go with me. WAW knows who she is (although not personally) and she knows that before I got with Mary a couple years ago that this friend, whom we'll name Sue, and I messed around and hung out a lot....friends with benefits kind of thing. So Sue will likely be with me and yes, since it's painfully obvious that WAW has spies on my FB page...I'm sure a pic or two from the show with Sue will give her pause. So that's the plan. Sound good?
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14