Advice on my Scenario Pt. 6 - Becoming a Warrior

[sandi2]

OMG.......just read about the conversation with WW. Why didn't you talk about it before contacting her? It was so obvious what was eating at you. Maybe we could have talked off you off the ledge.

Originally Posted By: mtb1981
OM should have never been mentioned. He's not important. This only involves you, W, and S. Pretend like he doesn't even exist...

The only reason i brought it up with the fact that he has been introduced to S3 WAYYY earlier than he should have been

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It doesn't matter. There is nothing you can do about it. And she knows you can't do anything about it.......so it make the whole conversation look useless and makes you look weak.

The only thing ill say is i dont think she read into it as much as we all are, if i had to guess she already forgot about it. Could I be wrong, if so, why?

Really? Both of you were snarling and nipping around each other's ankles. So, yeah.... I completely agree with JujuB.

Yet another situation where she is trying to minimize the involvement of OM. She doesn't know this but ive seen his Instagram pages (havent looked at it in 2 weeks FYI) which includes a lot of very blatant evidence they are in a full blow R. So why continue trying to minimize the fact that its happening?


After this question im done trying to figure anything she does out. Its a lost cause, a waste of my time and painful and unproductive.

I'll have to see it before I believe it.

I've tried hard to answer as many of your questions as I could. Remember asking me why she called you by your first name, instead of the usual pet name? You just answered your own question, and you didn't even catch it. It made you feel as if she was scolding you!

Another LBH would be posting in his thread, "My WW just called me by pet name.......what does this mean? Does she really want to use the pet name, or was it an accident"?

All those questions you've wanted to know about why she does this or why she said that? Even when a logical response would serve her better.......she'll lie, deny, down play, minimize, or whatever pops into her looney-tune head. Nothing about her is logical. The sooner you can stop expecting her to give truthful, logical responses.......the sooner you will stop driving yourself crazy wondering why she gave such a illogical response. Actually, there are some LBH's questions that sound pretty illogical, but I'm not saying this happens to be one.

Honestly, Orange, I'm not fussing at you. I am actually trying to use a little humor and get you to look at some of the questions asked, and realize nobody would be able to give you the precise answer.....but WW herself. In some cases, even the WW couldn't tell you why she said or did something. At the time she "felt" it was the thing to do......and since she operates strictly on "feelings", then that's her go-to plan. Not logic.