its all moot anyway. I've decided im pushing forward with D. withdrawing my hold and going to just cut the cord and be done. hopefully as we have no joint finances it will be quick.

I wish she had to change her name after D is resolved. She doesn't deserve to carry my patriarchal name around, its a thing im proud of, and shes despoiling it.
She will likely keep it same as mine to piss me off.

Oh well. Let it be a reminder to her of her awesome decisions. Same thing with the door code at our daycare. Its our anniversary date.

M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds